Parenting: A Modern Democracy (not!) or a Medieval Papacy?
Sun, 5/09/10 – 8:10 | No Comment

“This house IS NOT a democracy!” How many times did you ever hear your parents say (or scream) that? And how often do you say it now?

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GenX Pandora

Lizzie and Jane are on the cusp of GenX. We continually search for our spot (past and present) in the great game of generational generalization.

Heretic Chicks

Spirituality as continually redesigned by Lizzie and Jane

Inside The Box

Lizzie and Jane’s brewing stew of back and forth trouble that hasn’t yet been loosed upon the world…

Lists upon lists upon lists

Because there’s nothing you can’t put on a list

Outside The Box

Everything else Lizzie and Jane are thinking about…

Class Participation
Thu, 8/01/09 – 17:22 | 3 Comments
Class Participation

Lizzie When Jane and I went to high school in New Jersey in the early 80’s, there were no state-imposed SOL’s (standards of learning) or tense parents’ Q & A nights for the Sex Ed …

Lizzie’s Home Town
Mon, 22/12/08 – 21:14 | No Comment
Lizzie’s Home Town

My hometown of "Pleasantville," New Jersey, enjoyed the glorious status of being a regular stop on the Erie Lackawanna train line into Hoboken.   The neat brick train station, with its urine-smelling underground walkway, formed the …

Hey, Barack! Rick Warren?!? Really?!?
Thu, 18/12/08 – 15:41 | No Comment
Hey, Barack!  Rick Warren?!? Really?!?

Jane
So this morning Lizzie asked me what I think about Obama’s choice of Rick Warren as the pastor to give the invocation at his inauguration.
Lizzie
about the Rick Warren thing…coming up for inauguration. You heard about …

Jane’s December Distemper
Tue, 16/12/08 – 15:39 | One Comment
Jane’s December Distemper

Well, as my fellow Scrooge Lizzie has duly noted, that “most wonderful time of the year…” is upon us.
Chanukah, Christmas, Kwanzaa…  Malls, online shopping, a thousand catalogs in the mail and special offers pouring into …

Lizzie’s Top 5 Most Hated Holiday Practices
Tue, 16/12/08 – 11:24 | One Comment
Lizzie’s Top 5 Most Hated Holiday Practices

I am staring through a stepladder at 1,800 points of light—a profusion of clear mini-lights strung perfectly around our 12-foot Douglas fir.  My kitchen counter is lined with Costco-sized bottles of vanilla extract and molasses, …

Pandoration:
Sun, 16/11/08 – 22:54 | No Comment
Pandoration:

PANDORATION: n. the habitual, feminine act of opening up boxes full of trouble. Implies the adoration of all that goes along with trouble-making mischievous box-opening. The contrary and perverse lack of desire (as opposed to inability) to leave the damned lid tightly screwed on the above-mentioned Box…

Election Night and the following morning…
Wed, 5/11/08 – 7:33 | No Comment
Election Night and the following morning…

So here is Lizzie’s and my conversation from the night of, and morning after, this past monumental presidential election.  I stayed on Facebook, Huffington Post, MSNBC.com, and CNN.com until the wee hours.  Had CNN on …

Okay, so you got religion… Is the social connection enough or do we need rules too? Part Three (And while we are at it, let’s talk about Death, as well)
Wed, 29/10/08 – 8:46 | No Comment
Okay, so you got religion… Is the social connection enough or do we need rules too? Part Three (And while we are at it, let’s talk about Death, as well)

Jane October 25 at 8:51am
Thank you for all of that. I won’t be able to properly sit and think and write until Sunday (hopefully afternoon, but possibly evening). There is a lot to respond to. …

Okay, so you got religion… Is the social connection enough or do we need rules too? Part Two (And while we are at it, let’s talk about Death, as well)
Fri, 24/10/08 – 7:46 | 2 Comments
Okay, so you got religion… Is the social connection enough or do we need rules too? Part Two (And while we are at it, let’s talk about Death, as well)

Lizzie October 23 at 6:02pm
I am stuffed full of vanilla, luscious fudge sauce, and Reddi-whip–just from your answer to Question Two. And it’s just nutty enough. Who needs a cherry? (Memories of working the …

Okay, so you got religion… Is the social connection enough or do we need rules as well? Part One (And while we are at it, let’s talk about Death, too)
Thu, 23/10/08 – 13:29 | One Comment
Okay, so you got religion… Is the social connection enough or do we need rules as well? Part One (And while we are at it, let’s talk about Death, too)

Jane October 23 at 8:44 am
Lizzie’s First Question: Is the cultural connection and uncodified personal spirituality enough for me?
Short answer: yes.
What follows is the long, much more rambling answer:
One of my housemates in my one …